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How Well Do You Know Your Partner?

Answer about each other and see how many you get right.

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114 of 138 questions across both decks. Score them properly in the game above, or read them out to each other — free, no signup.

How well do you know your partner — the basics

12 cards

Food, colours, the everyday things you should know by heart.

  • What is your partner's favorite food?
  • What is your partner's middle name?
  • What is your partner's favorite color?
  • What is your partner's biggest fear?
  • What is your partner's go-to comfort movie?
  • What is your partner's favorite season?
  • What is your partner's shoe size?
  • What genre of music does your partner listen to the most?
  • What is your partner's favorite drink to order?
  • What is your partner's zodiac sign?
  • What is your partner's favorite holiday or celebration?
  • What's the pet name your partner uses for you the most?

Questions about your partner’s habits

13 cards

How they actually move through a day.

  • What does your partner do first thing in the morning?
  • How does your partner take their coffee or tea?
  • What side of the bed does your partner sleep on?
  • How many alarms does your partner set in the morning?
  • What is your partner's most-used app on their phone?
  • Does your partner fold or scrunch toilet paper?
  • What's your partner's go-to snack at midnight?
  • How long does your partner typically take to get ready?
  • What does your partner do to relax after a long day?
  • What's the one chore your partner absolutely hates doing?
  • What habit of yours does your partner find the most endearing?
  • What does your partner order at a fast food restaurant?
  • How does your partner handle stress?

Questions about your partner’s preferences

13 cards

What they pick when nobody is watching.

  • What's your partner's love language?
  • What type of vacation does your partner prefer?
  • What's your partner's ideal date night?
  • Does your partner prefer sweet or savory food?
  • What kind of weather does your partner enjoy most?
  • What's your partner's favorite way to show affection?
  • Would your partner rather cook at home or eat out?
  • What's your partner's go-to karaoke song?
  • Does your partner prefer mornings or nights?
  • What genre of movie does your partner pick most often?
  • What's your partner's guilty pleasure TV show?
  • What's the weirdest food combination your partner enjoys?
  • What's the one thing your partner would save in a fire (besides people and pets)?

Questions about your shared memories

11 cards

The moments only the two of you were there for.

  • Where was your first date?
  • What was the first thing your partner said to you?
  • What was the first gift your partner gave you?
  • What song reminds you of your partner?
  • What's the funniest thing that has happened to you both?
  • What was your partner wearing when you first met?
  • Who said 'I love you' first?
  • What's the most thoughtful thing your partner has done for you?
  • What trip or adventure together is your partner's favorite?
  • What was the first movie you watched together?
  • What's the most embarrassing thing your partner has told you about their past?

Questions about your partner’s dreams

11 cards

What they want next, and further out than that.

  • Where does your partner dream of traveling to?
  • What would your partner's dream job be if money wasn't a factor?
  • How many kids does your partner want?
  • Where does your partner want to live in 10 years?
  • What's one thing on your partner's bucket list?
  • If your partner won the lottery, what's the first thing they'd buy?
  • What skill does your partner wish they could master overnight?
  • What does your partner want to be remembered for?
  • What kind of home does your partner dream of?
  • What's your partner's dream retirement plan?
  • If your partner could have dinner with anyone, living or dead, who would it be?

Intimate questions about your partner

18 cards

Closer, softer, more personal. 18+.

  • What's your partner's favorite position during sex?
  • What turns your partner on the most about you physically?
  • What's a secret kink or fantasy your partner has shared with you?
  • Where does your partner like to be touched most during foreplay?
  • What's your partner's favorite way to be dominated or to dominate?
  • Has your partner ever faked an orgasm? If so, why?
  • What's the most adventurous place your partner has had sex?
  • Does your partner prefer morning sex or evening sex?
  • What's your partner's go-to dirty talk phrase?
  • How does your partner like to be kissed - soft and gentle or hard and passionate?
  • What's something your partner does in bed that drives you absolutely wild?
  • Does your partner like to be vocal during sex or more quiet?
  • What's your partner's favorite sex toy or accessory?
  • How long does your partner typically like foreplay to last?
  • What's a boundary or limit your partner has in the bedroom?
  • Does your partner like to cuddle after sex?
  • What's the most intense orgasm your partner has ever had with you?
  • Does your partner watch porn? If so, what kind?

18 of 40 shown — the rest are in the game above.

Spicy questions about your partner

18 cards

Bold questions for couples who are comfortable. 18+.

  • What's your partner's reaction to trying new sexual positions?
  • Has your partner ever used a vibrator during sex with you?
  • What's the riskiest place your partner has wanted to have sex?
  • Does your partner like to role-play in bed?
  • What's your partner's favorite scenario for role-playing?
  • Has your partner ever tied you up or been tied up during sex?
  • What's the most intense sexual experience your partner has had?
  • Does your partner like to incorporate temperature play (ice/hot) in sex?
  • What's your partner's opinion on threesomes or group sex?
  • Has your partner ever sent you nudes or erotic messages?
  • What's the most public place you've almost gotten caught having sex?
  • Does your partner like to use mirrors during sex?
  • What's your partner's favorite way to be spanked or to spank?
  • Has your partner ever used nipple clamps or similar toys?
  • What's the longest your partner has gone without sex?
  • Does your partner like to watch porn together?
  • What's your partner's reaction to dirty talk?
  • Has your partner ever faked enthusiasm during sex? Why?

18 of 20 shown — the rest are in the game above.

Extreme questions about your partner

18 cards

The boldest round. 18+.

  • What's your partner's ultimate sexual fantasy that involves power dynamics?
  • Has your partner ever participated in BDSM activities?
  • What's the most extreme sexual act your partner has tried?
  • Does your partner have any fetishes that involve bodily fluids?
  • Has your partner ever used impact play (whips, paddles, etc.)?
  • What's your partner's opinion on consensual non-consent role-play?
  • Has your partner ever tried electro-stimulation or e-stim?
  • What's the most taboo sexual fantasy your partner has confessed?
  • Does your partner like extreme bondage (suspension, mummification, etc.)?
  • Has your partner ever explored sexual hypnosis or mind control?
  • What's your partner's most extreme pain tolerance during sex?
  • Does your partner have any interest in sexual objectification?
  • Has your partner ever tried fire play or wax play?
  • What's the most degrading sexual act your partner enjoys?
  • Does your partner like to explore altered states during sex (drugs, hypnosis)?
  • Has your partner ever participated in orgies or sex parties?
  • What's your partner's most extreme exhibitionist fantasy?
  • Has your partner ever tried extreme sensory deprivation?

Play it as two rounds: one of you answers about the other, then swap. The gap between the guess and the real answer is the whole game.

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